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A Secret Proposal on the Amsterdam Canals

By Aleksandria Rudenko | Updated 8 November 2026

Woman in a long cognac coat down on one knee on a canal bridge during a secret proposal, holding up a ring, two church spires far behind

Avery and Robin had talked about Amsterdam for years, and in February they finally flew over from the US. Robin thought it was simply a winter trip, but Avery had planned a secret proposal on the canals.

I welcome all couples equally, and proposals like theirs are part of my couple photoshoots in Amsterdam. Avery booked from an inbox Robin doesn’t share. After her booking, I sent her a map to the bridge, a few preparation tips and some outfit ideas for a winter day.

Two Church Spires at the End of the Canal

I was already in position when they arrived. From the bridge, the canal runs straight toward two church spires, with bare trees on both banks. They walked up hand in hand, past an old lamppost and a row of gabled houses. To Robin, it was just another stop on their trip.

Hand in hand across a bridge by an ornate old lamppost, one in a cognac coat and one in a cream jacket, a row of gabled houses behind

Two women at a bridge railing, a cognac coat and a cream jacket with white sneakers, gabled houses and an arched bridge across the water

The Secret Proposal on the Canal Bridge

Avery caught my eye and waited for my signal. Halfway across, she stopped, took out the ring herself and went down on one knee. Robin looked down at her, smiling, as if she couldn’t quite believe it. Then came the yes and a hug, nose to nose, with a new ring on Robin’s hand.

Closer view of the proposal on a canal bridge: one woman kneels in a cognac coat and black trousers, the other smiles down at her

Nose to nose in a hug just after the proposal, a new ring on the hand resting on her cognac coat, the canal soft behind them

For a few minutes, they simply stayed on the bridge and looked at each other. Meanwhile, I kept my distance and let them have that moment.

Smiling up at her partner over a cream jacket, a woman with dark hair, small earrings and a black turtleneck under a cognac coat

Face to face on a canal bridge just after the proposal, seen past a cognac coat, tall dark canal houses and bare winter trees behind

Amsterdam felt like the right city for this question: the Netherlands was the first country in the world to open marriage to same-sex couples. By the old lamppost, in front of the gabled houses, they kissed, and the city simply carried on around them.

Kissing by an ornate lamppost on a canal bridge after the secret proposal, a row of white and red-brick gabled houses behind — An old lamppost and a row of gabled houses, in February

A Carved Door and an Olive Tree

After the yes, we went on with a relaxed walk nearby, as every proposal session does. On a quiet street, we found a carved wooden door the color of honey, a stone facade and an olive tree in a dark red pot.

Kissing beside a carved honey-colored wooden door with an iron grille, an olive tree in a red pot and a black bench nearby

Seen through soft olive leaves, she smiles over the shoulder of her partner in a cream jacket against a carved stone facade

For a few frames, I photographed them through the olive branches, so the leaves blur softly in front of the lens. Robin made Avery laugh, and the hug lasted a long time.

A laughing hug in front of a carved stone facade, framed by blurred olive leaves, with a black bench and a wooden door at the edges

Hands clasped around a cognac coat in a tight hug against carved stone, the new ring from the proposal on one finger

Against the carved stone, they held on tight. Robin’s hands rested on the cognac coat, with the new ring on her finger.

Sunshine on the Stone Steps

Then, for a moment, the February sun came out. On the curved stone steps of a corner house, Robin wrapped her arms around Avery from behind, and both closed their eyes.

Holding each other on the curved stone steps of a corner house in the sun, a dark gabled house with white window frames across the street

Her arms wrapped around her partner from behind on the sunny steps, both with eyes closed, a black iron railing beside them — A corner house in a moment of February sun

A few doors on, we found the stairs of an old canal house with a black iron railing. Its tall windows reflected the whole street right beside them.

Sitting close on the stairs of a canal house, seen past tall windows that reflect the street, a red-brick house farther along

Avery leaned back and smiled with her eyes closed, while Robin held her close.

On the stone steps by a black iron railing, one in a cream jacket leans in while the other, in a cognac coat, smiles with eyes closed

After the Proposal, Down by the Canal

We ended at the water’s edge. They sat down on the quay, held hands and watched a small boat glide under the bridge.

Sitting together at the edge of the canal after the proposal, a small boat passing under an arched bridge, a scooter parked nearby

Holding hands by the water, seen from behind, a cream jacket and a cognac coat, a man in blue steering a small white boat past

One last kiss faced the canal houses across the water. Then I crossed to the other side for a wide frame: the two of them on the quay wall, with a wooden boat moored in front.

A kiss by the canal after the proposal on a sunny February day, the two of them small before a row of canal houses and a white car

Seen from across the canal, they sit on the quay wall after their secret proposal, a varnished wooden boat moored in front

That same day also went on a roll of Kodak Pro Image 100, and those film frames have their own story.

Back in the US, that wide frame of their secret proposal on the canals now hangs above their sofa. Want to see how it works, step by step? Read how a surprise proposal shoot works.

Ready to ask the question in Amsterdam? Discover how my couple photoshoots in Amsterdam work.